Hello, friends. My name is Christian. I was born and raised in Anchorage Alaska. I’d like to share parts of my life in hopes I can help men of any age discover more of who we are.
I have spent my entire life trying to figure out what it means to be a man. Growing up, I wasn’t what you’d call “Manly” I was scrawny, nerdy, and bullied a lot. I got into many fights and had to learn to stand up for myself. I’d like to show others that you don’t have to conform to one type of man to be manly.
I went through my own transformative journey and hope by sharing my own experiences, thoughts, ideas, and discussions, I might be able to help other men come to accept and love themselves.
I am very nerdy, love video games, anime, and play Dungeons and Dragons almost weekly. Despite that, I ended up a security guard for ten years. From 2012 to 2022. Many of those years I would have to restrain and physically remove people who were drunk, on drugs, and unfortunately some mentally ill people who were not getting the help they need.
More than anything, it taught me how to carry myself well and talk with people. Both skills I lacked as a socially awkward teenager. I’d be honored if some of my stories help even one person believe in themselves. There is more than one way to be a man.
Maybe you can learn for yourself what Being Your Own Man means to you?